Someone who practices or studies techniques for meeting and attracting romantic partners. The term became popular in the early 2000s with the rise of the seduction community.
Neg
A backhanded compliment or playful tease used to lower someone's perceived status slightly. The idea is to stand out by not fawning over an attractive person, making you seem more interesting and less needy.
Opener
A line or routine used to start a conversation with someone you don't know. Can be direct (compliment) or indirect (observation, question).
DHV
Demonstration of Higher Value — actions or stories that show you're interesting, successful, or desirable without bragging.
IOI
Indicator of Interest — signs that someone is attracted to you (eye contact, leaning in, touching their hair, asking questions).
Kino
Physical touch used to build attraction and escalate intimacy, e.g. light touches on the arm or shoulder.